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Ah ha you did it! Toot toot! Yeah, iirc, “pressure” isn’t exactly how you described it; more like you were afraid that is all he was after. Enjoy this new relationship! It sounds pretty perfect –...
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@Addie Pray Yes, we did do it. But there was no pressure. And everything is just swell in that department. Haha. @Kate I think you’re right, over time, I will start feeling more secure. I think...
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TECH. Stop overanalyzing. Seriously. Relationships are a gamble. There’s no denying it. Many relationships end. Many also don’t end. You’re never going to find a guy that 100% fits EVERYTHING that you...
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I think this is a fairly normal way to feel when you realize you’ve found something really good and you don’t want to lose it. And if you like feeling in control, which I think you do, falling in love...
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Not me, because I’m not rude, but someone else wanted me to ask: Did you do it? (And if not did he stop pressuring you? I think that was kind of an issue if I recall correctly from your old forum...
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Hurray for Tech! I was wondering whatever happened to that guy. Sounds like things are going perfectly! As for those “falling in love” pangs, I hate that. Hate it, hate it, hate it. It *is* *so*...
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i was completely like this when my husband and i first got together. just never felt anything like it. for me i just kind of kept going. i tried not to think about the possible loss, and be happy with...
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I think maybe these intense feelings are just new to you, and since you (from what I know through dw) are a level-headed person with a touch of anxiety/ pesicimtism (thanks autocorrect for not jumping...
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Hey Guys. So I wanted to get everyone’s thoughts on a few things. I met a new guy about 2.5 months ago. He’s truly great. So handsome, smart, and hardworking. I mentioned him here when we first met...
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I didn’t need to cry any more than I already have been these last few days, but this is very sweet. Thank you.
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Wendy has basically taught me how to have a healthy relationship! I have a better idea of what I want from a partner and a better idea of how to communicate it. I’m a LOT less likely to put up with...
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Wendy has taught me that it is ok to leave a relationship for any reason if it doesn’t feel right. How to set a timeline for a LDR and that there needs to be an end point. She has taught me that a...
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Wendy has taught me that just because you’re emotional, doesn’t mean you’re crazy. And even if you feel crazy, you’re not necessarily crazy. This is especially relevant because I have cried literally...
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Wendy taught me that it’s ok to expect a big love, the real thing, and that it is worth waiting for. She taught me that having a baby is ridiculously hard, changes everything, but is worth the effort....
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And I only say that because a lot of this stuff is relationship and marriage issues that I just haven’t had to deal with yet…a lot of the issues I just don’t relate too in my life (yet).
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While I’ve never gleamed any advice from this site I have gained a lot of insight and self-checking with where I align myself on personal and social issues. I think I have always been kind of an...
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Great idea! Let’s see…. Wendy taught me that its ok to be nervous when you are making a big decision that will effect the rest of your life. I thought I was a bad person for being nervous and...
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I actually wrote in to Wendy and she gave me unbiased advice about dealing with coworkers and friends after I eloped. Her advice let me release the breath/stress I was holding in surrounding my...
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OK, so last night I deamed in DW. It was crazy weird. What it came down to was me thinking this: You know how we encourage lists? For ourselves? When to MOA. What we want in an SO. What is good about...
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